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Thursday, September 6, 2007

Paris Hilton wants to be more responsible...

...so she says that being a mother is going to get her there???

HUH??? Now don't get me wrong. I'm not saying she NEVER needs to be a mother, but come on...the best way for her to be responsible is to have a child??? Ummm, no, the best way to be responsible is to DO responsible things. Don't complain about getting caught drinking and driving, and don't whine about the consequences that follow. Don't drink and drive idiot!!! Don't complain about the fact that you can't go anywhere without paparrazzi. You started it by living the party lifestyle and showing up at every premiere and party. She wasn't big until she started flaunting herself in public. DO responsible things, and people will view you as a responsible adult. Get a good job and support yourself rather than living off of daddy's fortunes and trying to get yourself out of trouble without accepting the consequences, help the less fortunate, do something with your life other than party! That's what responsible people do. They don't go around having kids to make them more responsible.

Anyone who says that they need a child to make them more responsible highly underestimates the job a mother does. But of course she won't be mothering that child. That child will have servants and nannies to raise it while mom continues to flaunt herself in public.

I'm not saying just PH deserves not to have children right now...I'd say that about ANYONE (Britney, Nicole, Jessica, etc) who lives life like she lives it...with no regard for anyone else but herself. You CANNOT be a selfish person and be a good mother! And anyone who knowingly chooses to drive a car under the influence of drugs or alcohol is the most selfish kind of human being there is. Can you be selfish, and be a mom? Sure, but not one that your children deserve. And in my opinion if you can't put yourself second and nurture your children then you don't deserve to have them. Now I'm not saying that moms have to ALWAYS put themselves last, but if you are going to hire someone to do the raising for you while you party and flaunt yourself in public then you don't deserve the right to be a mom. Plain and simple.

*getting off my soapbox now*

So what do you think???

7 comments:

Kristen said...

My eyes were bugging out of my skull when I saw that she was preparing her body to be a mother. I've been "preparing" my body for years to no avail.

I just know that she'll get pregnant within the first 3 months. It's just the way it goes. Gives me more of a reason to be bitter.

Changing Expectations said...

What? I didn't hear about this until now. Utterly ridiculous. Hopefully she will read your post and have some enlightenment. Unbelievable. She'll probably get pregnant right away. Argghh

AwkwardMoments said...

Ok i didn't hear this news but ...WHAT ..... THE ........ HECK. WOW, I am speechless

Dimple Queen said...

As a mother...I agree that you can not be a selfish person and be a good parent. There are too many things that your child needs, and most importantly is YOU! Don't get me wrong...there are times when we (the hubby and I) get off work and want to go to a movie or dinner alone with out the kids so we will call a sitter. But I will also tell you that MANY times when we do that I feel terrible. I can't help to think that I should be with the kids, that they need time with me since they have been in daycare all day. There is no way that I could have someone that watched my kids for me 24/7, that took them to dance lessons, soccer practices and games and took care of them when they were sick (although being thrown up on is not the best part of motherhood!). And for her to think that it will make her more responsible....heck...I still make some very irresponsible decisions!

DQ

Betsy said...

AMEN sister!!!

Waiting said...

She talks about it as if it's just her project of the week. I mean, Nicole is having one, so she must have one too. *Rolls eyes

RBandRC said...

I agree. That is just obnoxious. And the worst part of it all is that she'll get pregnant without a problem. ARGH!!!